I've been through so much pain, heartache and emotional turmoil that I wonder how I'm still standing. I've been misled, used and taken for granted countless times. How is it that every day, I wake up hopeful that true love will find me? Where do I get the strength to continue to be receptive no… Continue reading Resilient Heart
He entered the room and immediately felt nervous. He was specifically told to arrive an hour early. His friend Jordan was trying to set him up with a woman that she met at work a few months ago. She had been trying to introduce them for weeks but he always managed to avoid it. Tonight… Continue reading The Set-up
She called me. As soon as I saw her name on the caller ID, I knew something happened because we both dislike talking on the phone. I picked up and said right away, " What's wrong ? " She started with her usual " Soooooooo ," followed by a long pause letting me know that… Continue reading But Why Are You Really Hurt?
I want a love that erases all my fears about whether or not I'm worthy of love. I want to be able to freely talk about and discuss our love with others without fear of being embarrassed. I want to feel like we are working towards a promising future together. I want to be able… Continue reading What I’m Afraid To Admit
click to read : The F*ck Friend (part 1) **************** Continuation ************ I was shocked. This man, who I believed was being completely transparent with me from the very beginning just informed me that he was still a married man. I feel like when someone asks " Are you still technically married? ", if you're… Continue reading The F*ck Friend (Part 2)
A few years ago, I made a conscious decision to avoid my emotions. I was always a very emotional person but I decided that I would not let it lead my life or my interactions with the opposite sex. Once in a while, I would download a dating app, try it for a few days,… Continue reading The F*ck Friend (part 1)
Did you ever have to break up with someone who "didn't deserve it"? Basically, the person is the appropriate height, attractive enough and things are going relatively well. You have no real complaints and they seem to be really happy with you. However, you just know that this is not the person for you. It's… Continue reading Breaking Up Is Hard To Do